Occasionally a book changes your basic philosophy of ministry. Struggles In the Kingdom by Jim Woodruff and John Payne was that kind of book for me as a young missionary in Germany. The verses that undergird this story of a struggling mission church in New Zealand are Acts 14:21-22, where Luke writes that Paul and Barnabas strengthened the disciples and encouraged them to remain true to the faith, saying, “We must go through many struggles to enter the kingdom of God.” Until I believed this verse to be true, I confess being a sheltering, some might say paternalistic, church planter, always trying to protect the young Christians in our fledgling flock. I would say these were my most common mistakes:
- Providing all the answers to all of their questions—sometimes before they asked.
- Keeping the curtains around leadership closed, so they did not realize our struggles.
- Not letting new baby Christians out of the house because they might be exposed to something that would lead them astray.
- Not encouraging new Christians to share their faith; they didn’t know enough yet and might mess up and get discouraged.
- Pre-empting most difficult conversations by skillful direction away from anything likely to be controversial.
Great churches allow struggle because they are not afraid . Most of our reasons for avoiding struggle or protecting members from struggle are grounded in FEAR—fear of “losing” the struggle. We can’t tell the members what that church leader really did because they might quit coming; we can’t study that question because it will just stir up too much controversy and make people unhappy. We can’t let them know how much that property really costs because they will think it is too much, and we won’t get to do what we think we should do.
Great churches anticipate struggle and prepare for that day. Notice I did not say that they run from the struggle or that they shelter members from struggles. Paul and Barnabas strengthened and encouraged the churches in preparation for their struggles.
Great churches teach their members about spiritual warfare and encourage them to avoid the trap of seeing the enemy as “flesh and blood.” The church we planted in Germany survived twenty years after the mission team left, but then Satan used personal immorality to attack the church leaders/pillars and this group did not survive as a church (Happily, very few members actually gave up their faith!). In retrospect, I believe this congregation could have survived if anyone had been able to frame their struggle for them as spiritual warfare, instead of brother against sister—civil war!
Great churches accept struggle as an opportunity to learn, not a reason to quit. Great churches survive and grow stronger with the same struggles that diminish or destroy other congregations. What happens when sin is exposed among church leaders? When the local factory closes and the contribution is halved? When the preacher quits—today! When a member comes back with “new” biblical truths? When the elder’s wife shares that she prays in tongues? When the church leaders refuse to share the church’s financial statement with members? When the missionaries are dropped in order to expand the church kitchen? Aren’t all of these opportunities to learn more about trust in God and grace toward others?
Paul said, “. . . the fire will test the quality of each man’s work” (I. Cor. 3:13), so fire should not surprise church leaders. Fear that God cannot or will not protect His Kingdom is what gives Satan the power to destroy.
Great churches are not afraid!
Mark,
I must say you are certainly “hitting the nail on the head”. Unfortunately, the mistakes you cite due to “FEAR” are not confined to young missionaries, but are still typical of leaders in churches. Too many have the “fortress” mentality and try to “protect the flock”. This protection is from what they perceive to be “grievous wolves” who raise questions particularly concerning methods–“why do we do things the way we do?” Or perhaps even worse is giving in to the “fear” of not “giving in” to the complaints when methods are changed–but not the message.
I believe it was Aristotle that said that the first virtue to acquired is COURAGE–because without courage the others can be futile.
Thanks, Mark. I needed this today. Each of these posts seem like a great chapter for a book! You would write it well! I plan to share these observations of yours with the elders and maybe other ministry leaders as we look to follow the vision that God is placing before us. Blessings.