I have a feeling that many, if not most Christians do not plan to go to church on Sundays when they are traveling. Sometimes we haven’t, but most of the time we try to and I’d like to tell you why.
First, why don’t Christians go to church when they travel? Here are my top ten reasons:
- Don’t want to take the time away from travel, sightseeing, or relaxing.
- Don’t want to take the time to find a church.
- May not like the church you find, so then you will have wasted two hours.
- Don’t want to take Sunday clothes.
- Don’t like going to church with people you don’t know.
- You might bump into teaching, worship, or something that makes you uncomfortable!
- You might get invited to lunch or something else that would just take up more time.
- They might expect you to come to Sunday night or Wednesday night services and that would just be more time out of your schedule.
- They might not have anything for the children and we’d just have the kids on our laps for the whole time!
- It is not a salvation issue, so why should we?
As I said, we have used some of these excuses ourselves over the years, but we have also been blessed many, many times by finding a church and breaking bread with Christians on Sundays. Maybe I can give you some hints that will encourage you to look for these blessings as well!
- If it is part of your travel plan, then you are more likely to follow through. If you don’t plan to find an assembly of saints on Sunday, then you will not. Write it in to your travel itinerary from the beginning—just like tithing from the first fruits.
- Do a little research about the available churches. On a recent trip, I spent no more than thirty minutes on the internet, looking for churches of Christ in an unfamiliar city. I looked for things like location and time of services. If churches are too far away or they start too early or late, then I look for alternatives. These are not deciding factors, but not unimportant.
- Try to learn the intangibles from the website. Is this an open church or pretty closed? Is this a church involved outside of itself? Does this church have only traditional worship? Almost all of these questions can be answered by looking at a church’s website. If the church doesn’t have a website—well, that says a lot right there.
- Arrive at least 5-10 minutes before services begin, so you can meet a few people. Not only will you meet some nice people, but you will likely find a connection with some church or some person that you both know. We recently went to church in Savannah, GA that was completely new to us. We didn’t find any relatives, but we did find out that the preacher was a cousin of a missionary that we had worked with in Kiev, Ukraine!
- Expect to give, not just to receive. I find more and more truth in Jesus’ saying that it is more blessed to give than to receive. When we give concern, friendship, our fellowship in communion, our common worship, prayer, then we are blessed! If we attend only to receive, we can still be blessed, but maybe not as much!
- Communion is too important to miss! If Jesus thought that breaking bread was important, then….it doesn’t really make any difference what I think. I must need that fellowship and koinonia often! We always look for an opportunity to break bread with Christians!
- Worshipping with other Christians teaches us the breadth of God’s kingdom. Not every church building, not every worship style, not every sermon has to be the all-time best or even as good as the ones at home. Being gracious is being Godly!
And your children will only complain about it if you do! Spending that time with Christians on Sunday is a great discipline for teaching children to put God first—before vacations, before sleeping late, really FIRST! And that is worth a lot!
Sometimes it just doesn’t work out—we used to call this being “providentially hindered!” Sometimes we have to miss meals, and sometimes we have to miss sleep, but we are healthier and feel better if we don’t.
Don’t miss the spiritual feast awaiting you when you travel!
I immediatley thought of my Mom and Dad when I read this…great blog post that was lived out every Osborne family trip….I have to confess I was convicted by this post…and as Kelly tells me…”don’t rebel against the conviction…allow it to change you!”
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You’re right about the powerful lessons it teaches your children. I was raised by parents who made it a priority to worship with churches as we traveled, and it made an impact on me. There were great people we met, and churches we make sure we scheduled to visit again, and some great stories, like the time my grandmother got locked in a bathroom in a Washington, D.C. church building one Sunday evening…great memories.
It helps us get to see that we’re part of something bigger–bigger than the local church, bigger than congregations, bigger than ourselves and our travel itineraries.
As a minister in a church plant in the Northeastern US, I can also tell you that having visitors from across the country is a great encouragement to young congregations that also need to visibly see that they are part of a global family of believers, and it puts faces and names to that reality.
Great post, Mark.
Thanks for adding more great thoughts–and especially for the memory of your grandmother. Those kinds of memories are not the substance, but they are the beautiful highlights of our memories.